If you make dinner plans with me, I’ll usually end up inviting a third person along.
I know this is very, very rude.
I’d rather you think I’m rude, than that you have to sit with me for an hour and find out how dull I am and wonder why you bother being friends with me in the first place.
This is the same reason I avoid making dinner plans.
I never really ‘dated’. There was one time in college when I actually asked girl I was very enamoured with out for dinner and a movie. She brought her dorm mate. In retrospect it could have been that she shared the above mentioned fears. I would like to believe that o was just too much sexy beast for one woman.
In case you were wondering I don’t think the night even ended with a hot one-some.